As many folks know, you tend to marry/get involved with people who are your opposite (outgoing folks with reclusive folks, spenders with savers, etc.) That is how it was with Mrs. 39 Months and I. I tended to “pay myself first” and then spend the remainder, up to the point where the checking account was close to zeroing out. Mrs. 39 Months was a saver from the word go – and I mean “saver”.
For our entire relationship, she has dumped any extra money she had (leftover at end of year, gifts of money, bonuses etc.) into a savings account. Period. When her company had a 401K, she pretty much put it in guaranteed income (savings, CDs & bonds). Ouch!
While I redlined it, I made sure my 401K had a large amount of stocks, especially when I was younger. When we finally had enough surplus cash to invest in an IRA on the side (and a Roth IRA shortly afterward) it ended up being my money which got put into it. Thus I could control the investments, and it was 70% -80% stocks.
Eventually her savings account has reached six-figures. All earning 0.25% in a basic savings account. Needless to say, this has caused a minor amount of stress/strain in our relationship. No matter what I said or how I reasoned, she wouldn’t budge.
Well, I finally got a small victory this week. I got her to take $10,000 and invest in two $5,000 CDs (a 2 year and a 4 year) offered by her local bank. The plan is to create a 5-year “ladder” of CDs earning more than a regular savings account. These are both earning around 2.5%, which is 5X higher than her regular savings account. We will see if this convinces her to try a little more with her savings. At least I can say that we have a healthy emergency fund, right?
I hope you are all moving forward towards your FI goals as well!
Mr. 39 Months