Losing the battle with Mrs. 39 Months about Christmas Decorations

It’s the holiday season, and as everyone knows, the world is full of companies trying to commercialize everything and sell you bunch of stuff you don’t really need. I wrote about how we try to resist this, and how others can as well.

Unfortunately, I can’t say we are doing everything right in the 39 Month household. Mrs. 39 Months plays at being cynical, but she really does seem to love this season, and goes out of her way to purchase additional decorations for the inside of the house (the outside is pretty much in place now, with few additions over the last 5 years). Call it the Christmas spirit, call it “nesting” call it whatever – she enjoys adding to our interior decoration.

While I could complain about it, or question why she is spending the money on the items, after 31 years of marriage, I have learned a few things – and after multiple years pursuing FIRE, I have learned others. The key is living deliberately, and deciding what you want to spend your money on. If something truly does give you joy, and you are spending cash on it (instead of going into debt) then you should feel free to spend the money on it!

Why go through 10 years of misery just to say you are financially free, and can start living like you want. This sounds an awful lot like the old retirement plan (work till 65, then live it up). That isn’t the way the FIRE community is working their plan, as evidenced by all the folks whose blogs and podcasts I take in.

We are already fully funding our retirement accounts to the max, and putting away more funds. In fact, in 2018, we are going to go from 35% to 50%+ of our pre-tax money going towards achieving financial independence. Smiley faces all around.

So go “splurge” on something you would like, especially if it’s not going to come anywhere near breaking the bank. Enjoy life now, and enjoy it once you reach FIRE.


Happy Holidays to everyone.


Mr. 39 Months

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