“No person has the power to have everything they want, but it is in their power not to want what they don’t have, and to cheerfully put to good use what they do have.” Seneca, Moral Letters
Many of you know that I have, over the last year or so, started reading and trying to follow some of the basic concepts of stoicism. The philosophy practiced by some of the ancients in Greece and Rome has had quite a resurgence over the last 20 years. I thank Tim Ferris for introducing me to the stoic philosophy and the first book I read on it. Many folks get it wrong, and think of it as an emotionless, stone-like attitude to life. This is not true – it does encourage you to experience and enjoy life; but it suggests that many of the emotions that are created by life’s issues (depression, anger, etc.) aren’t really valid because most of the issues are transitory and don’t really matter in the grand scheme of things.
I have found it difficult to follow many of the lessons of the stoic philosophy. While I am an engineer, I am also a very emotion-driven individual. I’m not sure what caused it (genetics, issues growing up, etc.) but I have quite a temper, especially when I feel that I am not getting the respect I believe I am due. For many parts of my life, my emotions have been the driving force in my decision making. This is, of course, in contradiction to the stoic way.
That is why I am enjoying my reading and daily meditations on the subject. While I still have a long journey to make along this path, I believe it has already helped me. I got a book at the beginning of the year titled The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday. It has a daily quote from some of the great stoic philosophers of history, which I can use for my meditation, and to attempt to build a better life. Today’s is where I got the quote above from.
I hope you folks are enjoying your journey on the path to Financial Independence and a better life.
Mr. 39 Months